Ask metafilter is where thousands of lifes little questions are answered. The story of amunre, the crappiest god ever, by joe gola. A filter is uniquely identified by its string representation which is parsed and matched by the metafilter. Apr 30, 2008 bonus points will be awarded to pdf that is properly typeset ideally by tex and html that allows customization via stylesheets, headers, footers, etc. Metafilter music is a site for members to upload their own songs for others to listen, enjoy, and share. Oct 02, 2017 i was so struck reading the article because it was practically identical to the metafilter crowdsourced pdf about emotional labor, like including specific examples the part about having to manage conversations about emotional labor being emotional labor in itself, really jumped out at me. Metafilters site and server can always use upgrades of hardware, software, and bandwidth, as well as more stable funding for continued support of its small but highskilled moderation and backend team. Is it even worthwhile to teach men to value emotional labor. The annotated metafilter post link to pdf townes van zandt 5,897 words view diff exact match in snippet view article find links to article archived from the original on june 30, 2007. The covid19 coronavirus is on a lot of peoples minds right now. Pdf, condensed version 10, jan 15 2016, prepared by cortex, 49 pages.
And its not just being caring, its that thing where someone says ill clean if you just tell me what to clean. Apr 03, 2020 metafilter is a weblog that anyone can contribute a link or a comment to. The oogieloves in the big balloon adventure, by nathan rabin. I love him very much, but i dont think he bought christmas or birthday presents for his family until he met me and realized that i and all my sisters did that. Bonus points will be awarded to pdf that is properly typeset ideally by tex and html that allows customization via stylesheets, headers, footers, etc. Emotional labor is the process of managing feelings and expressions to fulfill the emotional requirements of a job. On this episode kara and tanja dive deep into the concept of emotional labor, karas soul ascends her body, and we have a special guest. Op i hear you say emotional labor sounds like some feminist buzzword. Metafilter was created in july of 1999 by matt haughey. Not just doing the emotional labor part but also being seen as unkind or defective if they dont do emotional labor for all the people in their lives.
Whispernet combined with the handy keyboard and the limiting browser made. Apr 10, 2019 hapless bureaucrat april 10, 2019 at 12. Lessons from 11 years of community, was quite well received so he posted a version he recorded at home to vimeo. Then i wiped the hard drive and rather than just restore the full drive from backup, i installed a new version of the system and only copied over the documents folder, then went through the twentyhour process of resinstalling programs from scratch, on the offchance that there was a scrozzed prefs file somewhere. So many things rang true about emotional labor for me personally and also in what i see of my parents relationship and my moms anger about certain things. Itll be easier now that someone has made it into an annotated pdf.
You can vote on the ones you like and leave feedback for the creator. What are the alternatives to pandoc text pdf html metafilter. A read is counted each time someone views a publication summary such as the title, abstract, and list of authors, clicks on a figure, or views or downloads the fulltext. Emotional labor the metafilter thread condensed free download as pdf file. I was so struck reading the article because it was practically identical to the metafilter crowdsourced pdf about emotional labor, like including specific examples the part about having to manage conversations about emotional labor being emotional labor in itself, really jumped out at me.
I am not a big fan of psychic charlatanry, which often preys on people who. Emotional labor emotional labor is the work done to keep relationships and groups running smoothly often gendered womens work usually expected of marginalized people online, it usually involves not reacting to provocation, justifying your argument or your existence. Metafilter had a discussion of the toasts article on emotional labor in 2015. The umbrella of emotional labor has grown so large that its starting to cover things that make no sense at all, such as regular household chores which are not emotional so much as they are labor, full stop. So hes actually a really good guy in the sense that. The potato metaphor for emotional labor metafilter.
Jul 16, 2015 emotional labor rescue july 16, 2015 5. This part discusses four case studies to give a feel for how moderation can play out in practice. And its not just being caring, its that thing where someone says ill clean if you just tell me what to. Ok, well theres a pdf of stories from women about their experiences with men failing to provide emotional labor so have a read through it all 49 pages of it, and get back to me. Metafilters irl aka in real life is a space for posting offline things to do with other mefi members. A number of people created a pdf file that is a condensed version of the comments, located here. Agreed, i think this often looks a lot worse on women than men. Metafilters thread on emotional labor, in pdf form the. I often talk about emotional labor as being the work of caring. It was startd by matt haughey who ran the site pretty much singlehandedly until about 2004. Interactive text adventure for your kindleebook metafilter. This website exists to break down the barriers between people, to extend a weblog beyond just one person, and to foster discussion among its members. Reference links the metafilter community wiki is collecting reference info on this page.
Theres nothing particularly wrong with pandoc, apart from the requirement of a haskell compiler, which is a pain but not a showstopper. Lessons from metafilter posted by jason kottke mar 15, 2011 matt haugheys sxsw talk, real world moderation. More specifically, workers are expected to regulate their emotions during interactions with customers, coworkers and superiors. Mefi projects is dedicated to helping metafilter members announce their newly completed web projects to the world. In an interesting piece at the guardian, rose hackman digs into the cost of women absorbing most of the emotional labor required to make the world go roundthe workplace kind which includes. View notes emotional labor the metafilter thread condensed from biology 120 at university of idaho. Metafilter lets you individually modulate the filters cutoff, resonance and delay time using three separate modulators a 16step sequencer, an lfo, and an envelope follower with a sidechaining option making it easy to achieve effects such as filter sweeping, tremolo, auto wah, rhythmic gating, ducking, and hypnotic modulating delays. If youd like to chip in, you can donate to metafilter. Metafilter s irl aka in real life is a space for posting offline things to do with other mefi members. If your skills are otherwise wellrespected or youre in an industry where no one is expected to know a skill like event planning, its probably less risky to be strategically bad at things. Did you read that superlong metafilter thread about emotional labor. The overhead of caring i often talk about emotional labor as being the work of caring. Thank you everyone for sharing your experiences and taking the time and energy emotional work again. Metafilter is a community weblog that has been around in some form or another since late 1999.
Nov 22, 2017 on this episode kara and tanja dive deep into the concept of emotional labor, karas soul ascends her body, and we have a special guest. Metafilter is a weblog that anyone can contribute a link or a comment to. The metafilter thread condensed table of co n t e n t s i. I follow metafilter, and this comments section became known as a valuable resource for members to share their experiences, and where many came to understand that emotional labor is a thing.
Metafilter jobs is a subsite for sharing job openings among members of metafilter. The actual logistics are complicated, the emotional labor of balancing everyone and realizing that oh so and so has x thing going on, so they really cant leave work early and someone else has issues at home and thats why theyre touchynot instantly replying. Julie beck interviews sociologist arlie hochschild who coined the term emotional labor. The underlying sentiment from someone who says man, i cant undertake reading that much about emotional labor isnt the much, its the exertion of more than 10 seconds of attention to the subject if that. So hes actually a really good guy in the sense that he wants to do that labor and be helpful and kind. It shifted something in the way i see the world and made obvious so many things i noticed every day but thought of as disconnected. A typical weblog is one person posting their thoughts on the unique things they find on the web. So you file it away into a sep, probably with half your brain saying yeah, ill grab another roll and put it on when i finish, and part of your brain going and if i forget to do it, the next person will get it, whats the big deal, its just grabbing a. Interactive text adventure for your kindleebook many people cut their teeth on the imagination fueled text adventures games released by infocom back in the eighties. Compiling and annotating this was a flatout public service. I have been trying very hard to introduce this idea to my kids who are adolescents that women do a huge amount of unpaid labor and that is not right. Metafilter consists of seven subsites, each with a different color. I have a minor in womens studies, so i knew a lot about emotional labor.
Loggedin members can enjoy downloads, playlists, favorites, and podcasts of tags, playlists, and specific users. For the heck of it, i printed the original thread to pdf. Because many men slowly stop with the emotional labor when they have secured the marriage. Metafilters thread on emotional labor, in pdf form the mary sue. Emotional labor, as hochschild conceived it, referred to the work of managing ones own. Emotional labor the metafilter thread condensed emotional. Metafilter members can help each other by observing good information hygiene share reliable information sources, use good judgment, dont panic. I have been trying very hard to introduce this idea to my kids who are adolescents that women do a.
So to the poster above who said we should have been able to work this out the emotional labor situation before marriage it was all lies. Jess zimmermans previous work for the toast can be found here. You can list open positions by category, location, and by job type, and we also offer a directory of members seeking employment by category. Ask metafilter is a question and answer site that covers nearly any question on earth, where members help each other solve problems.
Articles are retrieved via a public feed supplied by the site for this purpose. Sep 28, 2010 interactive text adventure for your kindleebook many people cut their teeth on the imagination fueled text adventures games released by infocom back in the eighties. Whispernet combined with the handy keyboard and the limiting browser made the kindle perfect for a textbased adventures. Ive never played the board game this is based on, but this is an inspired bit of message board fan fiction. A screening of a very strange kids movie gets even stranger. Nov 29, 2010 metafilter is a community weblog that has been around in some form or another since late 1999. Loggedin members can enjoy downloads, playlists, favorites. The original emotional labor thread and its followons have been repeatedly posted on the bestof. You can propose meetups, post about performances, presentations, and exhibitions, any event where you think itd be a good idea for a bunch of metafilter members to show up. Metamatcher to determine if the meta is allowed or not. Metafilter has a bunch of women who are quite smart and sensible about a lot of things, just not trans people. This idea that has recently gotten more attention thanks to a kickass piece in harpers bazaar by gemma hartley entitled, women arent nags were just fed up.
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